Well, I am currently on spring break. I don't really have that much to update on, so this will be a short post. With the whole roommate situation, it hasn't gotten any better. In fact, after I had sent her that reply, she sent one back calling me demanding and trying to act like her mothers (I'll post it below). She then unfriended and blocked me on facebook, so I cannot respond to her. How I know she blocked me? I asked a couple of mutual friends of ours that are and are not friends on facebook with her. All but Becca could see her stuff. It turns out, she had unfriended and blocked her as well, why only Emma knows. Since I didn't know how to proceed in the situation, I asked our RA how she thought I should go about trying to resolve it. She offered to talk to her, to see if she could try and resolve it, to which I didn't respond. Turns out she went ahead and talked to her, because last Monday, Emma came in the room, was in her closet for a little bit then asked if I went to Sarah (RA) about the issue. I told her I had since she had freezed me out. That was the last time we spoke. Thursday, she came back to the dorm (she has pretty much stayed away from the dorm since this all went down), still wouldn't talk to me. However, she did ask Becca when everybody was leaving, and Becca's roommate Laina when I was leaving (we couldn't stay in the dorms over spring break without an exemption- sports team, nearby job) but wouldn't ask me this. She ended up checking out at 8AM friday morning. Luckily I had checked the sign out sheet the night before when I was signing up, otherwise I would've been woken up by it all. She did leave a bag of trash in her closet, which had been in there since the previous week. So when I get back Sunday, the room is more than likely going to reek, and need aired out majorly! I had asked the RA to check Emma's closet, because to my knowledge, I had not seen her remove it, plus Thursday night I thought I heard a mouse in that general direction (we had previously had a mouse problem, where the mouse ended up being attracted to Emma's closet because of all the food/smelly stuff in it). She opened it, but since the trash was in a bag and closed, she saw no reason to remove it. I'm hoping our room doesn't smell, but it probably will. The Ra did say that I should try to approach Emma during the week we get back from Spring Break, and if it is still silent treatment and avoidance, then there will be a
required mediation meeting. Sounds like fun, NOT! As much as I want the mediation to help solve this issue, I don't think it will help anything. In fact, it may just make Emma feel attacked.
My niece turns ONE Thursday!! She's so adorable! Oh, did anyone else forget that this past Sunday was "spring forward" DST? I didn't realize we had lost an hour til I saw my sister's status on facebook about accidentally forgetting to reset the alarm clock so they missed church.
Well, I hope everyone is well, and has a good rest of the week :)
**Her last response before unfriending and blocking me on facebook**
March 3 at 8:23pm
u attempt and u come across to me as my mother news flash ur not either one of my mothers so stop acting like it! i know your not trying ot but the nose problem oh well i am loud i don;t try and be but hey it happens im not perfect the barn im working on it and another reason im not respond to you as quickly as u want bc u r coming across as demanding and newsflash that don;t work with me so im not going to be answering my phone and answering texts and im not going ot be on facebook sorry i will see u whne i get back from my vacation have a fun weekend!!
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